Yes, this is my first post and I\u2019m choosing to write a Reddit post opinion w\/out being blocked due to an \u201copinion\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first one asks,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAITA for breaking up with my gf for accusing me of liking \u201cyoung girls\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMy gf is 24 years, I am 33. I met her at a meetup event. She started talking to me first and we started dating about a year ago. I always told her that I was a bit insecure about our age difference but she would always say that she prefers guys a bit older since they are more ready and know what they want. She even told me that she has always dated guys a bit older than her and guys her age are not her type.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n She also asked me about my ex wife. I was with my ex wife for 7 years but I met her when she was 19 and I was 25. I always felt insecure about that too. But as we grew old, the age difference started to feel less and less or an issue. Now that I am 33, she is 27. Not a big deal.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n The other day, my gf went through my phone and saw an old picture I took with a girl I went on vacation with right before meeting her. The girl was 28 years old at the time, most likely 29 now as it\u2019s been almost a year. She is a lawyer for gods sake. For some reason, my gf believes that the girl looks young (16 in her opinion). I tell her that could not be further from the truth. The girl is most likely 29 now and I can prove it to her by reaching out to the girl. She says the girl probably lied to me and she can\u2019t believe it unless she sees her Id. I told her that\u2019s unreasonable but I know for sure that the girl was 28 when I met her and she is a lawyer. Nobody is gonna be a lawyer at 16.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n She keeps insisting that the girl looks too young when the girl literally have wrinkles and creases on her face. I can\u2019t see where she is getting that from. Then she said that because I started dating my ex wife when she was 19 and I was 25\u2026 and now I am dating her, it\u2019s a pattern with me and it seems like I like young girls. That took me aback, not because I gave any value to her statement but because she was the one telling me in the beginning that she wanted a man around my age.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I told her I want to break up since I won\u2019t be sitting here and letting her accusing me of a highly illegal and immoral crime. She is now trying to be nice and pretend nothing happened.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am I justified to leave?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dude, leave, don\u2019t leave\u2026 no one fcking cares. You don\u2019t need to go on SM to get permission to get away from a relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n My opinion is that if you call a grown woman a girl, gfy, you do have an issue and shouldn\u2019t be dating anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Imagine if a 30+ year old woman called any man a boy who was the same age\u2026 you\u2019re basically stating you like girls and not women, as if her age is happenstance. If you can\u2019t refer to women as women, you\u2019re a troll and need to get bent. <\/p>\n<\/body>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Yes, this is my first post and I\u2019m choosing to write a Reddit post opinion w\/out being blocked due to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12,"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions\/12"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heartdawn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}